I'm so sorry for your loss. I know how a death in the family can derail everything for a while. Are you doing okay?

Here's that tutorial. (Third time linking is the charm.) And gosh, but smooth hands tempt me, but I beg for enough weird things done to weird meshes as it is. *grins* The closest I have to reference pics for a plump lady are comparison pics of nude fit and fat morphs of bodyshapes that don't quite work, at least in terms of useful reference... or just pointing out some TS3 conversions by Yuxi and Cynnix and RentedSpace, because I'll be honest, that bodyshape could work for me. It's not exactly pudgy, but it's noticeably thicker than TS2 bodies, and slimmer than RenGal. Would any of that help?

I can offer another Niece Of Hat story-- Mom's got a tablet, and the wallpaper is one of those animated-fish thingies, where you feed the koi and tapping the tablet makes ripples in the 'water.' My niece loves it. She likes to smack the water and watch it move. However, she's got a tendency to start other programs while we let her mess with the fish, and managed to set the date back to 2000 with random smackings.

We're still not sure how.