I have a wishlist a mile long if you want more distractions, but if your game isn't Medieval it might not be up your alley.
Good luck with your hair! I'd offer advice but I really have no idea what would make it do that in Bodyshop. I sometimes get disappearing meshes if I move things around-- it won't read a project when the mesh isn't in the same folder it was in when the project was created-- but if you haven't done that I'm out of ideas.
Re: Customizing Tenshii Akari blanket
Good luck with your hair! I'd offer advice but I really have no idea what would make it do that in Bodyshop. I sometimes get disappearing meshes if I move things around-- it won't read a project when the mesh isn't in the same folder it was in when the project was created-- but if you haven't done that I'm out of ideas.